I know this sounds completely pathetic but when I go over it’s not for the ~stuff but rather for the cuddling after & sleeping over & the spooning & waking up with his arm around me or being woken up by kisses on my shoulder or falling asleep again to the sound of his breath in my ear. Sure the stuff is nice, but it’s all the other things that make me go over, really. & I think that although we’re just casual or whatever, he likes all that other stuff too. So it doesn’t really matter when he doesn’t text back or when he says something a little bit hurtful or when I see him with other girls because I know that in that moment I won’t feel so lonely any more, even if it’s just for a little while.